Know the condition of your flock.

How do we lead the people entrusted to us?  How do we work with them? As leaders, what should be our posture towards our team?  What guiding principles can work on a general img_8332setting? As of writing, I am reading a new book entitled, “The Way of the Shepherd”,  7 Ancient Secrets to Managing Productive People by Dr. Kevin Leman and Bill Pentak.

The first chapter tackles the principle: “Know the condition of your flock.

As leaders, managers, and overseers we can be preoccupied with the work but not with the workers. Yes, we need to get things done, but we should be reminded as well that people are tired of being treated like a number. They don’t want to be treated just as employees or volunteer but as individuals. It is our people who get things done. Our people is our greatest advantage.

And this will mean:

  • Follow-up the status of your people as well as the status of the work.
  • Getting to know them one at a time,  their goals and dreams, motivations, career ambitions and frustrations, intentionally knowing what impacts them at the moment.
  • Engaging them through the regular basis. This happens when we go out of our comfort zones and getting along with them, keeping eyes and ears open and asking plenty of questions.
  • The most important is this – following them through, it means keeping up with them with what’s going on in their lives.

Above all else, this should come from a heart that really cares for people. Whether they are full time staff or committed volunteers, knowing the condition of your flocks matters.

“People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” 

This chapter reminds me so much of Proverbs 27:23.

“Know well the condition of your flocks, and give attention to your herds”

Leaders won’t be able to manage what they don’t know.

Reflection questions:

  1. What is the posture of my heart towards the people I lead?
  2. Do I compromise my people for the sake of the work?
  3. Am I intentionally getting to know them and going out of my way?
  4. Am I listening to them?
  5. Am I asking enough questions?
  6. Am I keeping up with what’s going on in their lives?
  7. Is my motivation really to care for them?

As we try to reflect and answer these questions, we need the grace of the Lord Jesus to be the leader He wants us to be. We need Him to change our hearts. We need Him to overflow in our hearts so that we can genuinely love and care for the people – His people.

Relationships | Why dispose? 

On my previous blog, I wrote about relationships and how they aren’t disposable.  I shared about how my friends and I overcame the challenges and how to stand firm in saying “no” to disposable relationships. These are the friends I found in church who are truly for keeps. They have been a blessing and indeed, as described in Proverbs 27:17, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”  That is why I truly value them. 

Now, let’s talk about the people who we allow to influence us . Among the key relationships within our circles, Identify among them who you need to move to your outer circle of influence or totally disconnect with, due to it’s unhealthy influence in us. The Bible warns us about that in 1 corinthians 15:33, It says;

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People who we choose  as friends are the people who we allow to have influence in our lives. The bible says in Proverbs 12:26 The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.

We need friends that point us back to God in whatever situations, Who are  honest and sincere to point out our shortcoming, mistake and sin and walk with us in our faith and vision in in life. However we do not completely dispose those who we feel that brings us aways from God’s purpose,but leave enough space to keep the line open for us to share the gospel and minister to, and even have them in our prayers.

Here are a few questions to ponder on our current relationship that we allow to influence us most?

  1.  Are my friends empowering me to live a Godly life?
  2. Are my friends pushing me to go deeper in my intimacy with God?
  3. Are my friends building up my character and faith in God?
  4. Are my friends tolerating me in my worldly and ungodly ways?
  5. Do they speak the truth? and choose not to please me?

We need Godly men and women in our lives, that will help us grow deeper in our faith and relationship with Jesus. People whom we keep close to our hearts that remind of faith, vision and direction in life. People who stand along with us in our journeys and battles.