2024 brought the incredible joy of our first child, but also a series of health and home challenges. This year has been transformative and has solidified one powerful truth. Family will always be my first priority. Here’s how I put it into practice.
Family will always come first. It means that my wife and my child are my utmost priority, while all others come second. I have learned to protect precious time for my family. When a family member was ill, I had to drop whatever I was doing. The same happened during an urgent house situation. I had to move my family to a safer place. I then delegated tasks if possible. This allowed me to go home. I can be with my family or take care of the house situation.
Protect my family time. Never feel guilty with putting off events, meetings and gatherings that crosses with your valuable time with family. This means I have to say no to activities. These activities take my quality time with family, especially in the evening. If there is anything that needs consideration, we have to schedule it ahead. I need to talk to my wife about it.
My family is my first ministry. As a minister, I have been taught repeatedly not to sacrifice my family for success or ministry. The strength of my ministry life, starts at home. I have the divine privilege to have family and lead this family.
I am grateful and blessed. I have a wonderful community and fellow workers. They have extended so much grace and help in this season. They have been our extended family in a country not our own. They made this season easier for us. When my wife gave birth, our friends organized a food train. Our friends and community sent us food for 3 weeks. We were so touched by the love we received. Other friends came and helped take care of the baby. They also helped my wife when she was sick and I was sleepless. A workmate help me with my workload so that I can take care more of my family.
Putting my family first hasn’t diminished other areas of my life; it’s strengthened them. By prioritizing my family, I’ve found greater clarity, focus, and purpose in everything I do.
MCGONZAGA 